Small Groups
Leading Your First Group
Practical tips for hosting, asking good questions, and caring well
You don't need to be an expert to lead a group — you need to be faithful, prepared, and caring. Here is an example of how to plan and lead your first gathering, with Scripture that grounds each practice.
Step 1
Prepare Your Heart
- Pray for each person by name during the week.
- Read the passage yourself first, before any commentary.
- Remember: you are a guide, not the answer key.
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Step 2
Host with Hospitality
- Example welcome: “Grab a drink and a seat — we're glad you're here.”
- Keep the gathering to about 90 minutes and start on time.
- Share food when you can; tables build trust.
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Step 3
Ask Good Questions
- Observation: “What do you notice is being said in this passage?”
- Interpretation: “What does this show us about God?”
- Application: “What is one way this could shape your week?”
- After asking, wait — silence gives people time to think.
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Step 4
Keep Scripture Central
- Read the passage aloud together.
- When discussion drifts, gently ask, “Where do we see that in the text?”
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Step 5
Pray Together
- Example: invite one request each, then pair people up to pray.
- Write requests down and follow up next week.
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Step 6
Care Well Between Meetings
- Send a short text mid-week: “Praying for you today.”
- Notice who is missing and reach out without guilt-tripping.
- Share leadership — invite others to host or lead prayer.